Delivered by Amanda with Trinity at her side
My beautiful sister Rebecca Lynn was so many things to so many people:
Too many other things to list. But most of all:
After my sister graduated here at Carroll College I asked her:
"What are you going to do now that you have your degree?"
And with the utmost clarity she said:
"I am going to be a mother."
I thought to myself:
"You needed a degree in biology to figure that out?"
Being a mother was the most important thing in the world to my sister.
I'll never forget the day the she brought TJ into the world. The pride she had and still has for her son is immeasurable. TJ turned a light on in her heart that burns so brightly it can never be dimmed.
From the very start I always admired my sister's incredible attention to detail and passion as she pursued the art of motherhood.
She passed on her creativity to her children which we of course gained from our mother.
She gave them the gifts of sensitivity and exemplary kindness. She taught them how important family was by taking them to see our family up north and down south and points in between.
Life was precious to her and not a moment was wasted.
Any spare moments she had she gave to others. Becky was so supportive. Very supportive. She always had room in her heart to reach out to support friends her family and to incredible lengths her students.
For mother's day she had her students make these.
At this point Trinity held up a little artificial flower
For mother's day she had her students make these. Delicate roses made of chocolate kisses. She knew how important mothers are to their children and how much mothers needed to see that appreciation. And she didn't just 'tell' as she taught. She led by example. This one belongs to my mother.
Her tenacity and drive still blow me away. She was teaching High School coaching poms pursuing her master's raising two incredible children and since that wasn't quite enough she was scheduled to open her own dance studio just two short days ago.
Sundance was to be a place that afforded opportunities to so many children. But more than that it was the place where she would teach Trinity to dance.
Dance is one of the purest forms of expression. It transcends words.
It really is like talking with your soul.
Some beautiful things have been said about the art of dance.
Trinity will read some of them to you.
I could believe only in a God that knows how to dance.
Dancing faces you towards heaven whichever direction you turn.
Dancers are the messengers of the gods.
You can dance anywhere even if only in your heart.
Shake it til the moon becomes the sun.
There are shortcuts to happiness and dance is one of them.
Dancing with feet is one thing but dancing with the heart is another.
Let us dance in the sun wearing wild flowers in our hair.
Becky loved the sun. She always longed for warm climates. I believe she loved the sun because of its warmth and light and because it is a source of life for all of our little planet without discretion.
Next time you see the sun rise and peek out of the heavens take a moment to watch its beautiful rays dance across the sky.
After this TJ requested to say a few impromptu words.
They were strong and beautiful.
They are not listed as they were not written ahead of time.